Success Coach Cliff Stockamp from the Total Success Institute on making the right decisions and take responsibility for your own life ... and success

TO BE OR NOT TO BE
by Cliff Stockamp - Co-Founder of Total Success Institute

All decisions ADVANCE US or DECLINE US. We only have two Choices. And from this truth there is no escaping: "WE CAN'T NOT DECIDE" i.e. WE ARE ALWAYS DECIDING.

Either you are going to "Get the Job Done" no matter what, or you are NOT going to get it done, in which case you will create excuses to justify to yourself why you can't, didn't, wont, or don't feel like doing it. And Guess what: YOU GET TO CHOOSE! (i.e. to DECIDE). Isn't that wonderful?

You get to decide what YOUR world looks like and what it is filled with. No one else does. Very few people take Complete Responsibility for their lives. But to be truly Free, and to be able to truly create what you said you "WILL" create, you must take TOTAL responsibility for ALL your results.

If we look at the world from a sub atomic point of view, all we can see is complete chaos, billions of particles zipping around all over the place. The Moment You Think, Speak, and Act on an idea to acquire something in the physical world, at that moment, ORDER IS BEING IMPSOSED ON THE SYSTEM and the Subatomic world begins to Adjust

By Beginning to impose order on the Universe which contains ALL POTENTIAL EVENTS AND OUTCOMES, we Impose ORDER. By Stopping BEFORE we REALIZE the OBJECT of our WILL we simply add to the CHAOS in the world and in our lives.

Let me pose a question: "How can you possibly create a Result in your life (order) if you rely only on Luck, Chance, Hope, Fate, and Wishful Thinking?" Answer: You Can't. Consider how many times you INVOKE CHAOS to help you Achieve your RESULT. Consider how often you use these CHAOS INVOKING PHRASES:
"I THINK SO"
"I HOPE SO"
"GOOD LUCK"
"I WISH"
"MAYBE"
"GOD WILLING"
"I'D LIKE"
"I WANT"

These statements do not invoke order, They RELY ON CHANCE AND RANDOMNESS
And as such INVOKE CHAOS WHEN USED AND ACTED UPON. "Well I don't really mean them when I say them, they are just common clichés I've picked up" you might say.

If you say these phrases, Then it is because You ENDORSE THEM. If you don't mean them, then why use them?

The reason you use them and endorse them is simply because you are NOT CONFIDENT THAT YOU CAN OR SHOULD ORDER YOUR WORLD TO YOUR LIKING.

"So how do I impose more order in my life and get more of what I want?". This returns to the starting point to advance or decline. So, what are you going to choose?

Cliff Stockamp is a highly sought after Master Coach, Author and Co-Founder of the rapidly growing Total Success Institute, a company that helps clients get results in every area of their life; utilising an Active Learning environment completely unlike anything ever before created. To learn more about him or the company, go to: www.totalsuccessinstitute.com

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